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Online dating, any one ever try it before?

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Never mind , any one ever try it before?

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  • Yes, but be aware it's mostly cattle call.

  • Dont bother dude its sucks because everyone o nthere has al lthese expectations and lists what they do and dont want...and i say just meet up with a person if they seem keen and go from there, dont just judge someone.

    When i tried it i messaged women and some go "sorry you are not my type"....and how does she know that? Id rather ask a chick in person than go down the crappy internet dating road.

    THen again, others will tell you they met the love of their life on there. so do what u want.

  • Lonnie, it's been a while. Where have you been man? I've been off work because I injured my leg , so I've been at home getting bored. How have you been?

    *sighs*, though you're probably right. Women on line, probably have a even larger list than in real life. They have time to think about it, and they feel more vulnerable , I'd imagine.

  • HEy dude im not that friggin great to be honest lol, how about you? I lost my visa here in NZ as i had enough of my mind blowingly depressive slave labour job with al lthe drones and ended up abusing my boss and telling her F*** YOU!!!! lol. So back to UK in 3 weeks after 4 years...man i aint looking forward to it...its a $hithole.

    What did you do to your leg?

  • @Lonnie said: HEy dude im not that friggin great to be honest lol, how about you? I lost my visa here in NZ as i had enough of my mind blowingly depressive slave labour job with al lthe drones and ended up abusing my boss and telling her F*** YOU!!!! lol. So back to UK in 3 weeks after 4 years...man i aint looking forward to it...its a $hithole.

    What did you do to your leg?

    Throw my back our at work, and got back to work a few days later threw out again, then healed went back and then my leg started hurting and I worked through it like a idiot, now my foot has had this sleepy , fuzzy feeling for the past like I don't know how long, since 3 days before the start of this thread.

    Which doesn't sound so serious but it's hard to work on and I don't want to make it worse. They took a xray didn't really find anything, and they said they'll have to do more xrays and tests on me on the 7th if they hadn't found what's wrong.

  • That sounds shit man sorry to hear that.

    I dunno...is it just me or does anyone else feel lost now? In terms of my reality, the economy is whack, nothing has any soul anymore and i feel like ive been somewhat...i dunno....banished from a previous life of substance, prospects and happy times.

  • @Lonnie said: That sounds shit man sorry to hear that.

    I dunno...is it just me or does anyone else feel lost now? In terms of my reality, the economy is whack, nothing has any soul anymore and i feel like ive been somewhat...i dunno....banished from a previous life of substance, prospects and happy times.

    It's alright man, life isn't always fair but we got to make the best of it for each other. We all share burdens, hardships, that's what friends are for. Everyone should have a friend. Life can be hard, I've been hurt a lot in life. But, we have each other to get through it.

    Humanity has accomplished alot when they work together, stand together for something good. The world has never been a perfect place to live in. But when we give it our best we can accomplish alot together. Right now things are whacked, and it's a difficult time to live in.

    But when we come together , even on a smaller scale, we can accomplish great things. We've become too independent on technologies and others functions in life, I think, and not reliant enough on the core, not reliant enough on what is humanity, the soul and spirit of life...

    We're too advanced and do see and respect, admire the humanity in all of us, we have patroitism only in the sense of politics, government, we don't have rosy the riveter types, or martin luther king types.

    We don't have that human core so much any more, we only see our evolution and where we have failed , we only see things within the system, the poiliticans and within our technologies.

    We need to stop and notice the core once more, and believe in a better future for humanity.

    Got to go be back later.We were always special before all this technology, and I think we lost site of what makes us special, driven people, what inspires true change. So we hope for false prophets promising change to bring it about.

    Ask not what your country can do you for , but what you can do for your country.

    And we need more inspiriing people to take foot and inspire us as a human race.

  • Tried it years ago... mostly ended up with guys my dads age sending me emails (strange...) but did chat a couple of guys. Met with one (as in a real life date), nice enough but no real attraction. He must've agreed cos he never contacted me again :) Not sure if overall my experience is common, few emails and stuff, couple make it to phone calls or meetings but mostly it tails off during the emails and texts. Okay, I've just read this post and it makes me seem sad and/or creepy... but I'm not I swear. And this is the internet so I must be telling the truth ;)

  • I don't judge, at least you're doing something, as I understand my only true love right now is METAL BANDS!!!!!

    And being some one who loves metal, and most people don't get that, I've learned not to judge, even more so than I would have other wise, doing my other things that I do...

    And, yeah, that's why I don't trust it, you don't know who you're going to get. Could be some really old guy/ girl. They need love too, but I'm looking for some one my age.

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