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How would you feel if your sister goes a wrong way?

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Hi, maybe it's not a polite question to ask but I heard in some countries like USA and European countries they don't care much about their females

I mean it's a fu*king bad feel to see your sister have a boy friend (Not in purpose for marriage)

How would you feel if your sister find boyfriend but not in purpose for marriage?

I'm really really hate this kind of girls, really really hate

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    N... it really is a cultural thing. We mostly live in countries where our sisters just are meant to chose their own boyfriends, and we mostly live in countries where it's essentially unimportant whether they eventually will marry as long as they love each other and are good to each other. If your sister has chosen a boyfriend, and that boyfriend has chosen her, maybe your first instinct should be to respect her decision, and possibly find out that it has been a good one. I care a lot about my sister. I know that she will never marry, because that's absolutely not her way, and I still hope she finds a good man, one she chooses to have at her side.

    I know quite well that in the US or in Europe, brothers care just as much about their sisters as they do in Iran. The difference might be what we think is good for those sisters.

  • It's not a case of not caring about females its that a lot of people in the USA and EU have a more liberal to relationships and dating. It's a culture thing really.

  • Is the guy a good guy? Does he treat her with respect? People are waiting longer and longer to get married in this country so it doesn't bother me when people don't start a relationship with marriage in mind, as long as they respect each other, you know? If my sister was dating someone who was a real rude guy it would bother me.

  • If I had a sister, and she was dating some guy, then I wouldn't care too much, its her decision. (Her life. I got no right to interfere)

    (Unless the guy was an asshole, or abusive. Then I WOULD obviously care. Quite a bit I should imagine! XD)

  • The question in itself isn't impolite. It is however wrong that being fine with your sister having a boyfriend without the intent to marry implies that we don't care about our females. Personally I think you should tread carefully around moral questions after your previous shenanigans on these forums.

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    N7.

    Then what about human morality? We are human and more than this
    For the record my sister never did such a shameful thing like that and I'm talking about your sisters :D no offence

  • I think the most important thing in a relationship is that the two people like each other, sister or not.

    The issue of whether two people in a relationship get married or not is utterly irrelevant at the start because you don't know if it's going to work out or not. If you go into a relationship specifically because you want to get married, then you're doing it for the wrong reason - you should be doing it because you like the other person and want to be with them.

    The idea that people don't care about their families simply because they live in one particular country is... flawed, shall we say. It's not down to which country you live in, it's down to the upbringing you have. I'd have thought though that as a rule pretty much everyone cared about their family in one way or another.

  • @N7. said: Then what about human morality? We are human and more than this
    For the record my sister never did such a shameful thing like that and I'm talking about your sisters :D no offence

    For one thing you shouldn't rush into marriage with anyone you should take your time and date people so you know what type of person you want to be with.

    Also theres another thing you can't control women here. If you try telling a girl here who to date she will let you have it then carry on dating him.

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    N7.

    @Darth Marsden said: I think the most important thing in a relationship is that the two people like each other, sister or not.

    Is that so? then I love every woman in the world! because of something that every man knows :D So am I free to become friend with someone like your sister just because I love to be with her! and no matter what will happens next?

    When a male and a female getting too close to each other then something bad goes to happen! I don't know about your country but in my country no one will marry with a girl that isn't virgin

  • @N7. said: I don't know about your country but in my country no one will marry with a girl that isn't virgin

    Over here no one cares. At all. If a women's hymen is intact or not. At least the sensible people. There are some people that do but we generally laugh at them.

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