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So I'm trying to figure out what the recruitment rules for each character are, and I've got 3 of them down. I'd like to have this down somewhere so that once Season 2 comes about we won't have to dig and dig and dig to figure out what to do again.
I'll edit the page if I can, and we get a comprehensive list. Correct me where I'm wrong.
Red Headed Ex-Addict:
Not sure here, but I acted as a friend to the guy, not a girlfriend. I never got mad during the talk, I told the truth about what happened in the corn field, and I said nothing when a "sorrowful" option wasn't available.
Win the RPS/Make Mr. Beanie go check it out (?). I won the RPS and couldn't figure out any other way to get him out of the car, but you survive the attack by Teen Loner's "friend" and drive off and Bearded Guy'll want to join the settlement to help look for Mr. Beanie.
Woman and Child:
Drive off in the van. It convinces the Child that they may be safer in the settlement.
I also acted very much "Don't lose respect for human life" but I somewhat doubt that played more of a role than "fear of the guy coming to get us".