Originally Posted by Avistew
If you keep telling yourself these things when you get attracted to her, it can become a reflex, and eventually you'll be "over" her.
Sure, she'll still be attractive, but you won't even have to tell yourself that nothing will come out of it, and it won't get in the way of whatever you were doing anymore. It takes effort but it's possible.
And then she'll get tired of waiting and ask him out, and wreck the whole thing.