Uhmm... I think that you have to fully backup him in Ep1 when Larry wants Duck killed, including choosing the option " Let's kick his ass!". The Meat Locker decision probaly has a lot of weight, but in Ep2 I stayed neutral mostly of the time, and then finally tried to save Larry.
In Ep3, i've shooted Duck. And later, when Kaatja asked me to stop the train, I reasoned with him. In Ep4, I always tried to be comprehensive with him, and always avoided fights, though i've made him shoot the boy. I did that wanting him to be the Ol' Redneck, and for some reason I really think that has a lot of weight ( Though I don't know how he reacts if you shoot the boy), but later I justified Ben's intentions after he tells him the truth.
In the end of the episode, he says that he didn't knew I would do the same for him. I choosed the option that Clem was my only family, and he understand, saying always was there for Kaatja and Duck. But when I ask Ben, he basically says " Me or him". There was four options:
Deal with it, Kenny.
Choose Kenny ( Don't remember what was it but that was the consequence)
Choose Ben ( Don't remeber what was it but that was the consequence²
First o choose "...", because I really didn't knew who to choose. Ben said that he would stay there. But I've felt strange and decided to rewind, choosing the option " Deal with it, Kenny". And surprisely, he stays quiet! I didn't saw that coming. So I got everyone in the group to come.
I'm posting this for the people who don't understand why even picking the option " She's my only family" in the ending don't get his help.