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Originally Posted by GuruGuru214
What I'm getting at here is that it's a lot easier to feel that you don't need something when you don't have it, but once you've got it, it can feel much more essential.
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I agree. But I personally see that as "fake needs". Or "created needs" if you will. Things you could live fine without, that are nice to have but can make you think "how could I live without it?". That's pretty common in our society.
I had a cellphone for 5 years, I know how useful they can be. I also know I don't need one. And yes, owning one for these five years caused me to create a lifestyle for myself that made it necessary to have one. "I couldn't live without a cellphone because, what if someone wants to call me while I'm out?"
Well, they can call me at home and leave a message if it's important, and if it's not important I haven't missed anything.
I'm much happier without a cellphone than I ever was with one.
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Originally Posted by Rather Dashing
I ended up paying not too much per month at all, because I only pay for my outgoing calls.
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That would make it free for me. Which also means that there really isn't a point of buying one to begin with.
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Originally Posted by Rather Dashing
For a home phone solution, I use Skype. I talk to my family and a lot of my friends through Skype-to-Skype calls.
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I would definitely rather do that and not have a landline, but things tend to require a phone number. Maybe I should check it out in case it's an option. Then I could do without a landline, too.
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Originally Posted by Rather Dashing
my cellphone is there for when I need to get in contact with someone and I'm not at home.
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Doesn't happen to me. Honestly when I think about it, most of the reasons that would cause me to go out would also cause me to have to turn my phone off out of politeness. Theatre, restaurant... And wherever I am, if I need to place a call, they'll have a phone. But I've never had to ask for that before. And why would I? Everything can wait until I'm back home. Although I'm going to be honest with you, the only person I call from my home is my husband when he's at work, and even that is rare.
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Originally Posted by Rather Dashing
Commonly, if you don't want to receive messages, you silence the phone. If the phone's on and set to notify the person(via vibrate or ring), it's because they're out but open for communication.
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Thanks, I'm aware how they work

I had one for five years. But I don't see the point in getting something that would either be off or that I would use while I'm at home.
Honestly, I can't think of a single time in my whole life that a phone call didn't disturb me. I find phones rude, annoying and stressful. I'd much rather check my emails whenever I personally want to.
I'd do the same with a cellphone: keep it off except to check for messages. So it would feel wasteful to even have one. As for text messages, who to send them to? All of my friends live in another continent and I don't know anyone here with a cellphone.
I might use a cellphone if it was a gift and I didn't spend money every month on it. Then I'd only have it to be called on, as a number. But even then, I don't think it would be worth the electricity it would cost to keep it charged.