I appreciate this appreciation thread about Lily.

Too be honest, I'd be on team Me-Myself-And-I, and not as Lee, either. Lee's a good guy, and all, but he'd probably end up getting me killed with his indecisiveness (Yeah, I know, the game is supposed to be that way). Those hesitations and wants to consider others' opinions would be our downfall. But, I digress.
Lily is actually a persona that I can relate with, save for the "killing on a hunch" deal. As a matter of fact, Lily could be my sister, plain out. Why? Larry!

I can actually appreciate him, too. It's just their (Larry and Lily) mindsets are pretty set in their ways. The only reason I say this is because one has to grow up with a father like Larry to understand Lily, which I have throughout my life. Does he mean well? Sure, but his thought process is iron clad and focused on one thing: His kid. Larry is just aggressive in his take on things and that affects Lily's personality.
Lily actually seems a lot more trustworthy, in my opinion, than Kenny. She has expressed concerns for the entire group, where Kenny hasn't. I think she's just been taken out of context, in some sense, and made to look like a royal bitch. Lily seems to have a genuine concern for the children of the group (Seen when she smiles down at Clem kicking the soccer ball in Ep. 2) and is always voicing that concern for the group when the situation arises. Kenny is always just yelling about his family, and that's understandable, but he doesn't really express too much of a concern for others, in my opinion.
Now, a lot of us hated Lily for her actions outside of the RV, on the highway. Yeah, I'll admit, she went a little overboard, but look at the situation, too. Your supplies are running out, you probably haven't had a bath in months, you were betrayed by someone you were looking out for, your dad was killed by one of your group members (I don't know about you, but if that were me, Kenny would be walking around with a new one torn into his ass), and so on. Think about that situation. Everyone can state that they would have handled that situation differently, but the problem is, most people won't have that experience in their life, to that extent.
The lack of evidence is what made Lily look like the bad guy (or girl) in that scenario, and that's acceptable. But with her mindset, not being much different than my own, and given the circumstances, I could see that outcome. As for Lily blurting out the details of your past, that's just human nature. It's called mudslinging, and it was used in the defense of everyone turning on her for her actions. Were her actions just? Maybe not, but that was her mind frame and I could see a situation like that happening. The only difference is, we're an audience, and see more of their daily lives than we would if we took a first person point of view.
When they found the bag of medication, and Ben confessed, in a sense, lily was right. The only problem was, she didn't see the big picture. I think that's all she's guilty of. Oh, and for those that got ditched, yeah, I was mad, too. However, maybe that was her way of saying she screwed up, and the group would be better off without her. It was a messed up plan of action, but lots of things are messed up in the spur of the moment. When you (Lee) went for the pencil, she could have easily snuck up on you and broke your neck. :/
All in all, Lily's judgement is a little off, and considering what she's been through, I don't completely blame her. Am I defending her, until the end? Nah, I'm still on team "me" (Not Lee, though), but I wouldn't mind having her back. I'll even say she was the lesser of two evils. In a perfect world, I'd be out on my own, only utilizing people for trade and supplies, if need be, but TWD stuck us in a group.

So, whatever. :P I'll even go as far as to say to the Kenny Naysayers his actions weren't so different than Lily's, only in a different manner of speaking.
Heck, I'd even go as far as to say there needs to be a Larry appreciation thread. Just think if you finally got on his good side, you'd have a walking pile-driver backing you up. :P Or, a 6'4" 300 pound, pissed off, dead guy eating your face. That's the beauty of the game, it allows people to perceive things differently.
tl;dr?: Lily and Larry rocked ass!

Oh, and these are merely my opinions. You know, opinions, buttholes, roses, whatever.
Hey TTG, mind allowing me to make a team "me" by letting us customize a protagonist sometime down the road? <3