No one is perfect, a smile can get you far in life, but it can't spread as far as a rainbow leading to your pot of gold.
Appearance is almost everything with people. Do you appear interested, do you appear bored, do you appear excited, do you appear truthful, do you appear happy. Why? It's simple, people use their senses as a blind guide, the senses that society, culture, school, experience has taught them to use. And they of course follow idea and common sense.
Since you were a infant, you see a smile across your mothers big face when you burp up your food or whatever it is your doing, you taste your baby food as time goes on your tastes evolve, develop.
Your senses and your emotions. Basically people put these forth as your experiences and they are stronger than most intellectual arguments when it comes to people, socializing, no one wants to get hurt. For example fear is stronger most the time than giving a guy a chance who could break your heart. (Common sense starts to take over now)
People, judgments, yeah. I'm 23 years old, I've been studying people for almost a entire decade. Of course, it hasn't been a entirely fruitful journey. I've needed to mature, and open my mind up to others, which is hard when you isolate yourself and study others.
I still have much to learn.
I read your comments about yourself and I feel and think nothing though. To be honest.
I already guessed the majority of it in my prior post and I already know how your story ends. That or the infinite solutions to your "problem" are too tiring, exhausting to explore, yet I suppose that we are typically limited to only a few solutions, choices because of who we've become.
There's only a few reasons, mostly, at the pivotal moments for change why change won't occur with human beings. I've been studying those things for years, but right now I'm too tired and out of it to bring those things up. There's really not that many, sure, every one is special, different BLAH BLAH BLAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH, but at the end of the day it's always between point A and B
The regular repeating issues
(A) "but...blah blah I'm different (b) (Whatever the 1st may reason would be)
(A) but...blah blah blah (B) (issue two)
See, what I'm saying?
It's usually complicated because the mind can be complicated, but our basic needs and wants as human beings aren't alien, and are rather human and naturally occurring.
The solution is the trick. People are easy to read, solving their problems can be complicated.
Whenever I hear anyone complain it's 1 of 5 reasons I'd imagine.
We subjectify things because that's in our nature, but more so is it in our nature that we all express basic human emotions, and generally are held back for similar , if not the same reasons in life.
The problem is I've studied for so long that I subconsciously sabotage myself. Perhaps.
Last edited by doodo!; 05/14/2011 at 05:18 pm.
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