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Originally Posted by DAISHI
Guys are supposed to ask the woman out. It's cultural evolution. Aggressive men date more for a reason.
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Originally Posted by DAISHI
evolution has provided a clear picture of who is more successful with women.
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I judge less who has had more dates, and more who has had successful long-term relationships. I am not aggressive when it comes to women. In fact, it was my wife who asked me to hang around and talk a while when we first met. She's not aggressive either, but she was interested in me enough to ask me to stay and talk to her.
People are who they are. Telling people to be aggressive when they are inherently not won't really help. In fact, I think to be so would have made my wife disinterested at the time.
Certainly you need to visit the sort of places where the kind of person you're looking for might be found (ie. going to bar/club is not the right sort of place for many), but
the best advice is to be yourself. Don't try too hard; just relax. You will attract the type of person
you're looking for best if you are the type of person that
they are looking for. If they're not looking for your type, then it's wrong to be someone you're not just to attract someone who wouldn't normally fit well with you.